Dear Husband, Valentines day is here again. It's been exactly 8 complete years since we started our journey. I was thinking about us and our life. Since our younger one is born, we are even more occupied.
Our usual days are mostly about meal time and sleep time struggles with our elder one and feeding, cleaning & soothing the little one. Our conversations are mostly limited to our boys. I look forward to see you in the evening to hand over the kids to you and to tell you about their activities during the day. Weekends are mostly playing with kids and fixing things.
I miss our us time. I miss our couple dates. I miss watching movies together.
Life will not be the same in few years. Our boys will grow up and will be needing us less. They will get busy with their lives, their friends and their career. There will be no bang on door while taking shower. There will be no or less screams, shouts and mess. There will be no tantrums(hopefully). Our marriage started with us and again there will be 'us' only. We will be able to go for walks together, just you and me. We will have some real uninterrupted conversations, without kids crying or calling Amma and Nanna 100 times in between.
While I look forward to that phase of our life, I knew we are going to miss this beautiful time of our life when our children are growing up. We are going to miss these family hugs, abundant kisses, meaningless giggles, innocent questions and all the craziness. So, let us celebrate each and every moment of this golden time, laughing out our struggles and enjoying the madness! Life is beautiful.
Happy 'FAMILY' Valentine's day!
